Out-spoken. Demanding. Blunt. Headstrong. Independent.
“And the reality is, we are nothing alike. But when he can’t deal with all of me he goes to you to get ME off his mind.. But it never works, see… He gets real still as he lays between the sheets as he’s tuning you out and now he’s picturing me cus you put up with the shit that I just won’t deal with cus I’m strong in who I am. And he loves that. He loves that about me it’s just sometimes he can’t stand the reality that he doesn’t DESERVE a woman like me and when he feels that way, well hell.. That’s when he comes crawling to YO dirty sheets. And just like a child you thought you would call me to share. Callin me to disclose to me the color of MY man’s underwear and you tell me like I don’t already know.. Hell, I BOUGHT em. Tryna tell me about how MY man fucks? Bitch, I TAUGHT him.”
(Source: missjmt-1hundred, via erikaloha)
He isn’t the best looking dude, he might not have what you would consider “swag”, he might not be the ideal boyfriend. There’s still something about him that she loves. She knows cuter guys, people tell her she can do better, but to her, he has the best personality she knows, he’s there for her when she needs someone and nobody quite understands her like he does. She doesn’t need everyone to think he’s all that, cause he’s more than good enough for her. So, ladies, I’m not saying to lower your standards and settle for less from what you know you deserve, just open your eyes and see the good in someone, not from their looks and their “swag”.
